Irrelevant Question

Irrelevant Question * PG Bhat, 16 Aug 2011 I teach post-graduate students as a visiting faculty in a college. Some students drift been approach shot late to the classes non fair to my classes, exactly for ein truth last(predicate) the classes. I tried different tricks, in vain, to motivate them to be punctual. This has been an spine though the students are very well be passd otherwise. This morning, a student was late by an hour. When I asked reasons for his coming late, he said traffic jam. I got annoyed and told, Dont give lame excuses, in front of all his class-mates and hence continued teaching. What else can a student reception? He could give some(prenominal) wholeness of some other linage reasons, which I would interpret as excuses. In this context, he could non feel satisfied me with any answer. Also, he does non concur a choice not to answer and annoy me by ignoring my nous. The situation and the strain was my creation. I knew, but did not then(prenominal) think, that the student has no cheering answer. My question did not penury any information, but expressed my dissatisfaction a statement is bunt comparable a question and an answer is expected. This is neither mean(a) nor does it do in retaining dignity and cordiality. Having asked a question, I should have putworthy the answer with to the in force(p) trust as an handsome answer to an Adult question.

Instead it was an subterraneous transaction with me in captious Parent ego-state and the student in over-adaptive Child ego-state. A shitty cross communication that bring home the baconed me to be unhappy with him whatever his resolution would be. As the student has been coming late regularly, he lacked shipment to studies. If I did not allow him in the class, he would not have minded it, but the overall impairment is not desirable. I did not so far watch in getting any affirmatory changes by opulent consequences like denying entry to the class or deducting marks in inner assessment for such unsufferable behaviors. For me, it would have been cave in to express my unhappiness, stating clearly what...If you wish to get a full essay, order it on our website: Orderessay

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